Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Candidness VS Sincerity

Suddenly i have an idea to talk about sincerity here: )

 
This is in my opinion, there is no wrong or right^^
NO offense : )


Sincerity

is the virtue of one who speaks truly about their own feelings, thoughts, and desires.

sometimes peoples is so confusing with the sincerity or candor

sometimes is not all the peoples are in common in term of their thinking or something they not likely to share the story with them, perhaps with some reasons.



There will have some peoples who always share about their feeling, or story to other

There will have some peoples who wont share their thoughts or story to other

There will also have some peoples just sharing some part of the story


why?

There is a reason!


There will have some peoples who thought after sharing their feelings, desires or stories will making a trouble for ourselves or maybe will creating a gossip for some peoples to chew the fat?

There is possible when A will have a thinking that whether B will thought A are showing off now or felt annoying with A's complaining  after share the story with B? or A just candor to share the happiness or sadness with B?

Somehow, some peoples will think more to bad than good.

Ya, sometimes peoples is hard to predict what they are thinking about.
That why it is important for those peoples who have same perception then it wont make the misunderstand of the statement or between each other.

Some other story, human is sometimes hard to have sincerity to each other
why?

In many circumstances, they will try to act nothing, try to avoid the trouble and some even peoples are pretend to have sincere with you. It's true *In my age, as a female, mostly happen on those girls who had a serious heartburn for those who are better than them or they think of others will have something are threaten on them such as they can even compare in term of prettier,rich,bf,gf,family,study,qualification,friends,fame, and so on* 
many right? Ya, i just speak out some major issues only. 



In the working world is much more dangerous and from what i think it is wont have this word " sincere" happen on the working life. Working peoples may have try to climb up from bottom to top so they will use a lot of effort to success    * just my point of view* ^^ * maybe i have a childish mind or maybe dummy thinking just ignore me*
It is because we are living in a cruel world that chasing for status, female, male, wealthy, position, fame, and many many more.

Sincerity

It is not prove to have sincerity if just only wise up the entire story such as sharing their working experience or life, private life, social life, thoughts, and etc to others.

Sincere

It is hard to know whether this person is sincere to you or not sometimes.
when you like that person you will felt that he or she is right.
It's true


Ya, for me...i just get use to it : )

end up, it cause me have this way of thinking

i trying so hard not to make myself to think of this way but.....

it is really just happened in front of me: ) so...

just try to ignore it or fix it or think the other way round. ^^


 try to protect yourself when the misunderstand comes or try to ignores it?

This is all on your way to manage it. ^^
so much to talk about and discuss here....
i can't just finish in a single moment.

The End

no angry no offense and please do not hesitate to comment on what a childish stupid dummy mind that i have

/: ) 

Remember! there is always have SOME different thoughts, feelings and a lot more of things in human being,It is not in common in everything because we are create in a special person who does have or does not have.

That why there is no same attitude, behavior, thought, idea, concepts and so on. ^^

That why there is a special look that we can differentiated.^^

That why there is always a beauty will exist in EVERYONE of us, but not only HE or SHE only. ^^

That why it is can't to make a comparison on such a special person we have. Everyone of them also have a special personality, fineness and  flaw  ^^






2 comments:

  1. quite agree.. wat a world we at.. well.. jus be urself.. we alw hav too much to care.. every1 is diff.. jus like, there is no an outcome tat feed all.. so it's normal tat there are diff views and perceptions.. nothing wrong with wat thinking we hav different from.. only tat we r the myself of own..

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