"Every relationship goes through stages. Where and how each stage develops is ultimately up to each person. While we always hope for the best, we often can't avoid the inevitable"-WongFu Production
(totally agree with the thing is ultimately up to each person, everyone of us will make a different ending if either one step out in the beginning)
I had shed my tears non stop to finish up this vid=....)
After I had finished watch this vid,
it really make sense and I totally agree there is a lot of stages we need to go through in a relationship.
A relationship will be success or not, it's all up to you whether want to make it right.
stage 1, Meeting-ramdomly meet up
stage 2, The chase-calling, texting or skype-ing for few hours every night.always feel like to hang out with each other.
stage 3, Honeymoon-dream come true, abundance of message,picture and details of daily life of each other.celebrate every single feast, dinner, movie, anniversary.
stage 4, comfortable-truly be yourself, things will starting to change. people changing over time, people tend to take it for granted.
stage 5, tolerance- arguing, try to fix things up, misunderstand, it just won't finished, it just won't enough for that.
stage 6,down hill-start to feel not to care about it anymore.
stage 7, breaking up- worse stages, back to the beginning. everything just back to the stranger. each other will have a new life all over again. sometimes we might take out the thing used to own by us, the memories and everything about us.
It will start from stranger become a friend then until become a couple.
It will turn to become a stranger in the end after go through with those stages?
Sometimes it is but not always like this.
the true is really ugly.
should we choose not to know,see and hear?
p/s: things isn't that simple from what we see from the appearance. there is a lot of thing hide behind there from our life.I wish it just can be so simple but it's not in that way i think tho.
